How to Stick with Your Diet

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  1. Remember why you’re here: You are sick of being sick and tired.

 

Sticking with the changes we’ve made will be more difficult if you don’t remain true to yourself and your initial goals. When you are faced with a decision regarding your health, whether it is what to eat for lunch or whether or not you should take the time to go for a walk, your “why” should be in the back of your mind.

 

Being sick is a great motivator for getting well but, once you start feeling good, you sometimes lose sight of the “why” and your motivation waxes and wanes. Check out this great YouTube video:

99% is a Bitch 100% is a Breeze


   2. All-in or ease in?

 

This is something you will have to decide for yourself. Think about other things you have changed in your life. What worked well for you? Do you do better with a set of rules to follow or can you just go with the flow? Maybe you need to take one small change at a time, like drinking more water and less pop. You can start by not taking anything away but adding in the things we have suggested. Do whatever works for you to help you attain your goals.


    3. Will you be glad you ate this in a half hour?

 

If the answer to this question is almost always no, then you need to take a look at your mindset. Is your goal more valuable to you than that temptation on a plate?

 

Temptations will be readily available for the rest of your life. You will never be able to avoid all situations that create roadblocks to your goal. Rather than being in the moment with that temptation, look forward to your goal and your reason for working with me. You can have treats any time but you can’t have your health if those treats become a regular part of your life again. Treats are just that—something to be enjoyed occasionally.


   4. You can’t make others change, people change when they’re ready.

 

You’ve been on the Heidi plan for a while and you’re noticing some major differences.  You want to share it with the world and point out all the things others are doing that they shouldn’t be, or not doing that they should be. But just because you’re feeling better doesn’t mean everyone will follow in your footsteps.

 

All you can do is be an example for people in your life. If they ask for your opinion, offer them some resources for what worked for you and let them know you are there for them if they need anything.

 

   5. Find balance. 

 

Balance your life so you can maintain your health and keep your body balanced too. Are there choices you make that don’t make you feel your best? How often will you choose to partake in those events? What are the things you must adhere to all the time in order to maintain your health? Your food and lifestyle choices should contribute to your overall well being most of the time.

 

You might partake in something that leaves you feeling unwell but not harmed (as in the case of gluten and celiac disease). For example, if I suggested you don’t consume dairy, but it doesn’t bother your system, maybe you have it when out to eat on occasion. Don’t worry about it. This is balance.

 

Learn to be okay with your choices. Progress. Not perfection.

 












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